I hand this book to couples who walk into my office wondering if their arguments mean something is broken between them. It doesn’t.

What “Fight Right” reveals is something I’ve witnessed hundreds of times in my therapy room: conflict isn’t the enemy of connection—it’s actually the pathway. The authors offer practical tools that transform those heated moments from threats into opportunities. When couples learn these techniques, I watch their faces soften as they realize they haven’t been doing it “wrong” all this time. They’ve just been missing a map for navigating disagreements with curiosity instead of fear.